Friday, January 28, 2011

Sensual Friday: Let Me

Yesterday on Facebook, Floacist video was floating around different people wall, so I’m wondering what the spectacle was about this video. “Let Me”, is the name of the song and let me tell you sensual sistahs that video is HOTT!!!! Floacist did an outstanding job display her sensual femininity. The color scheme had a midnight, majestic, exotic experience under the Dark Goddess moonlight that sparkle her shimming golden body. She also had a male to play her lover to accentuate her sexual play.

This video reminded me of DeAngelo’s, video “How Does it Feels”, when he was naked, well illusively. You remember sensual sistahs, sweat falling down his v-shape pelvic, way down only our imagination can withhold...mmmhumm. Floacist had that same similar experience. I always ponder could a woman ever demonstrate something more on the sexy level, without being too pornographic. Well, our sensual sistah Floacist did!!! She was semi-nude. Everything was exposing except her nipples and her yoni. Her nipples were cover with pasties and wore a skinny thong. Even though they were cover, the illusive imagination still wanders, if she was REALLY naked at the bottom. It sometimes became a chameleon taking your mind there. It was a great creatively optical.

But I love the most of her intimate play with her co-star. How can I forget what a great eye candy he is? His physic was a diamond that you didn’t mind rubbing just to get that shine. The chemistry between them was magnetically adorned with lust. This video had a beautiful tantric feel roaming through all aspects of “LET ME”. How can a man resist a woman sensually asserting her self to let her make love to you? Sharing her pleasurable gifts to be explorative and sexually giving; moving her body methodically slow just so you can salivate for her even more; being a true divine Goddess to emulate the ancient Goddess mannerism; accentuating her body to curve around like a slithering snake. It just absolutely beautiful is being a woman. How to love every beautiful curve you have? Today be inspire to have that, “Let Me” moment to make someone feel special.

And just for fun for balance:

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Fit, Curve and Beautifully Carve Feature: Jamilla Aimamet-t Manigault

I had the pleasure to me Jamilla maybe 3 yrs. back on MySpace. She was very intriguing to me. Why I was so intrigue was her profile picture. Her profile name on MySpace was Queen Huney and she had on this green dress posing in front of a tree. She was not just only posing, she was sensually teasing the tree with her allured back-sided, while her hands entwined like a kundalini snake. I was interested to know her and what she’s about. At this time I was on my own sensual journey and was attracted to other sensual women to learn things about myself, we are the reflection of each other, aren’t we? So I ponder on her page and she had all these beautiful pictures of herself. It wasn’t anything erotic, but more a lifestyle that was comfortable for her. I was like wow, I want to be like that!!! Overtime she has grown into a business woman; teaching other women and men to live sensually.

Jamilla Manigault is the founder of the Free Life Association which includes the widely popular, dynamic, and transformational Dripping Bliss Sensual Healing Services. Jamilla is a world renowned sensual, sexual, and life coach, sexual health educator, behavioral health specialist, a trained dancer, and healer.

Jamilla has studied the amazing and healing power of sexual energy, the keys to an amazing multi-orgasmic sex life, impeccable sexual health and boundless sexual energy and power, and the time honored secrets to a fulfilling, bliss filled life for the past 10 years.

She is at the top of her field and has an incredible gift and passion in coaching and guiding people towards creating lives they desire and experiencing the wonder and beauty that they are. She has totally transformed the lives of thousands of people, young and old, across the globe.

Jamilla celebrates her sensuality and loves to empower, inspire, and teach others to celebrate themselves, live fulfilled lives, regulate breath, enjoy intimacy and allow their sexual energy to freely flow. She lives what she teaches and lives in state of bliss every day and is passionate about teaching people how to do the same.

She is available for conducting workshops, seminars, and special events. Her passion, expertise, and interactive style add a powerful and unique dynamic to any event. Be sure to schedule her for your next event!

Jamilla will also be here in Atlanta Feb.12,2011 4:00-7:00p.m for the Pleasure Power and Tantric Seminar. You can purchase your tickets here:

Tantric bliss

The Fit,Curve and Beautifully Carve ladies believe in Laws of Attraction. When we are transforming our life our sexual energy becomes more sensitive and enliven. While carving out your curves, you will become even more sensual and attracting infinite possibilities to whatever you desire. You will allow those things to happen and only accept the things that will benefit your personal growth, relationships, creative ideals and businesses. If there’s an obstacle or barrier find solutions or just don’t accept it and keep it flowing. It’s that simple. But do accept the divine gifts Jamilla is providing for your sensual transformation.

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Dripping Bliss


Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Fit, Curve and Beautifully Carve: Body Image; Fighting Against BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) and Diet Industries

This week is about loving your body. Giving it thanks for being intricate part of your life. No matter what type of shape you have, today love on it. Transformation is about the journey not the destination of your process. We are sometime are bamboozle with many saturated advertiser promoting about weight loss. The media moguls of all genre always telling how fat, lazy, obese, death driven type of hype. Where is the genuine love? Do you really want to help me or is it just another opportunity to make a profit off my fat ass, huh? I know what I look like… I see myself in the mirror… I don’t need for you to tell me other DAMN thang about my weight issue, OK!!! You are not in great shape either… just because you are smaller don’t make you better… Imma do me… I am fabulous… I look good… Big girls can do it too…Watch me work this out… I’m good… I am a BBW (Big Beautiful Woman)…. WHAT!!!! With two snap and a Z formation, BAM!!! These are wars that go between the media and sizable women. We are always fighting against something. Who are we fighting against? Are we fighting with our pride against a 68.7 billion dollar industry that is exploiting our ignorant? Do we need to compromise our weight because of our ego; I’m going to show you type mentality? On the flip side, the BBW industries are also exploiting you, too…YEP!!!! It’s a business and it is profitable to keep you divided between the parents of the diet industries and the BBW? Who will support you the most? I say NEITHER. It’s time to support our selves and be with people who truly wants to assist you in your endeavors.

How can we choose they both are so enticing? I want to lose weight with the diet industry. They promise me fast results, like pills, fad diets, gastric by-pass, surgery, gurus, and sometimes the best part, I don’t have to exercise and can eat all I want. But on the hand, the BBW industry promise me I’m fabulous and you don’t need to lose weight or exercise; you are beautiful; love your curves; be happy with yourself and use this body magic garment you’ll appear to lost 3 dress sizes.

But hey wait a minute… I can understand the diet industry being more harmful than good, but the BBW industry believes in confident and comfortablity in my OWN skin. That’s good, right? I say absolutely, you can be confident and comfortable in your own skin, but not in the integrity of your health. It feels good when there are supported people like you hyping this foolishness. Sometimes, it keeps in this fat bubble and taking your identity away. Do you really know who you are or you are just being an example, an option, but not the reason to change? People like for us to keep campaigning about our weight. We are more than just a size of our body shape. We are transformative of all aspects of our life; weight is just a fraction of our true being.

So, lest take a deep breath, awwwww. Lest go back to the beginning. Start loving your body parts. Work from the bottom of your feet to upper part of your crown. You will only take a body part a time for the whole week, starting with your legs including your feet. Then the next day it can be your yoni and buttocks, then the next day your torso, so on. You can do what ever body parts you want to start with, just as long all parts are being attentive. I just like to start from the root area first. You can become sensual with your touch. Loving every momumental curves of your body, your soft skin being firm and strong.

I did this routine started Monday. After I finish taking my bath, I put on some jazz. If you have cable, you can use the Music Choice that have jazz channel. I don’t know about all cable have this or not, either way find some soothing groove. I like using olive oil mix with my favorite oil and smoothly rub my body, while it was still damp. I place extra attention to my feet and legs. I use my deep breathing to bring more concentration and sensitivity. I allow the sensation I was feeling to circulate all over my legs, especially the inner-thighs; this great way to learn about your body more intimately. You will discover you can have internal orgasm on every body parts, independently. As I kept caressing, I gave thanks to my legs and feet. Thanking it for carry and up-lifting my beautiful frame, allowing me to dance to swing my hips around, to walk on mother earth, to walk with great posture, to walk feminine, to stand with strength and be fearless and assisting the rest of my body to move in all direction. I give thanks to you. I also visualize the transformation of the shape of my legs, the form, and the stance. I imagine being a Black Stallion and seductively walking like a feline cat.

Don’t look at your flaws, but imagine the transformation. Look at all the infinite possibilities to create the life you want. Stop letting other people making profits off your weight issues, telling your stories, telling you how you ought to be, but indentify who you are and who you going to become. Stay healthy and beautiful… Fit, Curve and Beautiful Carve!!!!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Body Magic Ardyss…More Like a Body Lie Art-less

I love interesting, eccentric, illusive superhuman type of things. I think it’s incredibly exciting to see someone’s performance that has that WOW factor. That makes you feel, how do they do that? A Ripley Believe It or Not type of shit. I even, like going to a Japanese restaurant and seeing the chef flip, toss, rapidly cutting all the food on the countertop stove as an artful, culinary action flick. That is so super COOL!!! in my dorkiest voice. It has those magical effectors that keeps you smiling and mesmerize to every aspects of suspicion. The ambience makes you sense you are in another world being capture of their star like charisma. You are engage of the decorum of anticipation.

People put in a lot of discipline into their performance to make it look effortless and easy. There is a lot of flight time that ensue each day of rehearsal. Each practice makes that person more diligent, determinate, persistence, hard-working and focuses. Those are the characteristic of being a great athlete, dancer, bodybuilders, or someone who’s just capable to have a better qualitative life. So, how does this body magic works, again? Oh, maybe you haven’t heard about body magic, but I’m indubitably positive you have heard about it. So, lest recap those who don’t know. Well, body magic is an apparatus that can hold ALL of your body’s excessive flab, or minor areas to appear you have loss about 2 to 3 dress sizes without exercise. You will also get a better posture, butt lift, breast lift, a smaller waist line and a whole cake to go with it, so since you don’t have to exercise, right?. Ok, maybe not the cake, but the others factors of illusion unfortunately is the sweet selling part. How convenient, aye?

I have a slight problem with this contraption that every woman been raving about since its conception. I understand the whole ideal of reducing your shape to look better in your clothes and having fewer bulges, but it seems too risky. I mean, you are looking impeccable, sleek, well assemble, hair and nails done perfectible. Matter of fact, you are that woman Cherry on I’m Gonna Git You Sucka movie, when Keena Ivory Wayne took Cherry home to handle some business. He even lied about he had a 12 inch dick, um, something us ladies know all too often, but I digress, so Cherry felt obligated to tell her little secrets. Wow, a BIG OLE’ fat ass LIE. She wasn’t the person she appears to be. She was a hot mess! I don’t think I want to strap myself inside constrictive garment 3 sizes too small like a Pillsbury butter milk biscuit and having that burst sound when I’m trying to get out. How do men feel about that? You think you are getting this fine chick with a banging body and then POP goes the fat everywhere. I know me being sarcastic, but it’s the truth.

Now lest be clear, I’m not painfully against the garment, because it does have some pros. I can understand if you are taking pictures, going to a formal dinner, being in front of a camera or just participate in a special occasion, but not as a pacifier to lose fake weight. I can understand Monique wear her body magic for her show, but she also exercise. Sometimes, thick sistahs may wear foundation to keep everything in place for a performance or photo shoots to keep things looking more polish. That’s just in the factor for a professional look…just looking the “part”. A celebrity woman does this all the time skinny and thick to help camouflage their imperfections. That’s the beauty of the beast.

My main concern is accepting this garment to all of your weight issues. Yes, it will ban aide your flaws a little, but where your hard work, determination, persistence and focus is. You still have to exercise and motivate yourself to move your body. I know weight loss is challenging especially if you need to lose over 50 pounds, in my situation lest say 100. It’s very stressful to keep the adrenaline everyday to exercise. Transformation is a lifestyle. You are always changing and evolving to become better. Don’t you want to create the body as authentic the way “body magic” trying to help you achieve? Yeah, you do! It can be done. I will make it fun and exciting for you. You can move your body more freely, allowing the breeze to rise in-between your thighs. How can you feel sensual free being entrap inside of something that is not breathable? You will see changing your life is actually magical in itself. It can be sexy and fun, while you are transforming your beautiful body. I will share info and my own daily regime to help shed some pounds. Just keep reading my blogs and share with other women that can benefit from these wonderful information.

You can wear the body magic, if needed, but don’t become too dependent. Don’t accept the instantaneous fake results. You can wear it while exercising, if that keeps you motivated. I’ll opt for just holding in my belly for now…ha ha.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

A Weight loss tip: Goal vs. Desire

I came across this video that discusses the difference between goals and desire. After pondering on the topic for a moment, I thought it was very insightful and poignant. When we embark on a goal, it’s more structural and goal oriented. We have an immediate reaction to start a new productive lifestyle. This determination will resolute stagnate problems to become more enrich, enlighten and have a prosperous life. Goals are excellent to have to make you accountable to help you surpass your achievement. But it can also be trite and bland checking off every item on your grocery list. Well, in a hilarious way, that’s the comparison of checking off a list and checking it twice… who wants to live in a business suit type of personality... a big BLAH!!!!!

I rather have a bikini type of personality. You see, desire is contrastive from a boring goal. Desire is an orchestrated joy that you want to operate the love wheel turning in every directional pleasure. Desire is incredibly delicious drooling the taste of “wanting”. It captivates the allure and beauty for life to be purposeful and joyous. Desire is being engage with menial moments to lead up the BIGGER moments. You will be enlivened with creative ideals always being receptive to infinite possibilities to grow happily sensuous. Now that’s my type of transformation.

Weight loss is not just physical but also spiritual and mental. It’s a lifestyle base. Changing your life doesn’t have to become a goal that is WRITTEN inside a note pad, it’s to be a CREATIVE ACTIVATION being program in your daily lifestyle. It doesn’t always have be a step by step situation, but a rhythmic dance that goes through peaks and valley. Weight loss doesn’t need to be dreadful, but it can be fun and sexy watching your life transforming what you desire to become.

So lest make a desirous list that can be practical to use everyday, to every moment of your sensuous transformation. Here is mine in particular order.

My Desires…

1. To live sensually free
2. To become prosperous
3. To be sexually empowered
4. To be inquisitive to learn more
5. To write erotic poetry
6. To enjoy blissful sex
7. To dance to the rhythm of life
8. To walk with a posterior feminine walk
9. To never denied my self happiness
10. To sometimes indulge in rich tasty deserts
11. To give hugs and pleasure
12. To give great massages to my self and other
13. To look more pleasant
14. To engage more with people
15. To be submissive to my thoughts
16. To honor the feminine Goddess
17. To be with my twin flame
18. To love myself
19. To love you

Tuesday, January 18, 2011


Hello beautiful people. Once again we are gathering here for love for our self. I want to talk about weight for a minute. Weight is an astronomical problem here in the United States, especially for the people of color. We all know all the history of diabetes, heart problems, tumors, cardiovascular disease, and sexual problems and so forth that causes major problem within the community. It can be a financial burden and health burden to your family that may have to be caregivers to assist those in bad health. This weight loss industry is a billion dollars of revenues that is supported by the media, market advertisement, the BIG PHARMA , doctors and YOU to keep this circulated. We become infatuated with the after pictures that YOU too can look like this person propaganda. What should have been an opportunity to help people with their weight issue is only perpetuating the hardships of their emotions. The emotional damages are still there lingering and lament inside the body, just waiting for the opportunity to arrive. It’s like deploying a soldier for combat that has free will to shoot, and maybe kill someone, then send him back as a civilian without properly diagnosing his emotional hurts and faulty mind. You don’t think he/she can still remember those awful situations embedded in their sub-conscious that they can impulsively hurt someone. Yes it is still a possibility!!!

But there is one major factor that is very profitable with the sizable women community that is the BBW (Big Beautiful Woman). Being a BBW sounds very liberating, being confident and happy. It ensues all those things but is that enough being healthy and satisfy or just a movement to be trendy. I’m a BBW at the moment. I’m in the process to get FIT, CURVED AND CARVED. That’s my new motto. I’ve always kept my appearance of clothes, make-up and other essentials to look fabulous. There are some beautiful, gorgeous, voluptuous women with well define bodies. I think, most of them have work-out before, but somewhere has given up the progress to lose weight. So instead opt for the lifestyle being BBW.

I know, when a person sees me they only see my full-figure, but don’t have any notions that I’ve lost about 50 pounds, previously.I kept it off about 2 yrs., but I still have over 100 pounds to go. I love my new shapely body, but I want more off. I can have the body that I want, right? Since, this year I’ve already loss 12 pounds. YAY ME!!!! But what I find disturbing though, that when some former fatty loss weight, there are some people who are still BBW, would say, Dang, she lost all her curves, she look better bigger…WHAT!!!!! I mean, I can understand their sentiments for getting too skinny. Being skinny is not healthy, either. I believe being healthy and fit is the best approach for any weight loss standards. I know, the women of color, will never become skinny, unless you are naturally slim. The point is, I think we have gotten lazy and using being confidence and self-esteem more superior over our weight size. FIT, CURVE and CARVE are words that you are being active and as well being healthy. I think the word BIG, BEAUTIFUL are words that are subliminal and transmuted to just being BIG. When does self-esteem and confident stops becoming more superior over your weight? I mean, shouldn't it be a balance. You can be 400 to damn near 10,000 pounds (exaggerating) and have all the confidents and esteem in the galaxy, but where does it ends. Do you think we take BBW (big beautiful woman) way to far?

Let me bring some clarification. I believe you should have confident and self-esteem about yourself. In the past sizable women have been ridicule and abhorrent against their weight from other people disdainment. Society has place a bad stigma on plus size women like being lazy, ugly, non-sexual, gluttony, unmotivated, dumb every stereotypical myth to describe women's weight. There were exceptional women who became famous and display capabilities that esponge every myth like Queen Latifah, Kelly Price, Jennifer Hudson and Monique that says you can be full-figure and successful.

But, Monique set a certain standard in Hollywood to help restore other voluptuous women's well-being and esteem. She promoted sex appeal, clothing, sassiness, haughtiness and sensuality. Albeit, there were others like Monique, but she dominated being the spoke-person. Her campaign help enlist many women to follow their dreams in desiring the possibilities to become whatever they want. She even had a television show to display her brand.

Every women became hypnotize to this IDEAL. So after, plus size business started blossoming many became successful. It become more glamorize even coin different names like BBW (BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN), THICK DIMES, CURVAIOUS BODY, SIZE FINE it became glorified. Now there are modeling agencies, clothing lines, dating services, every type of Media Corporation, even right here on facebook groups.

We saw a rapid incline and a place where we can belong. The ideal was great and needed. But however, through observation there's no balance. It seems as our CONFIDENT grew our WAISTLINE became bigger. AS long their is fetishes and aggrandize corporation to bring dolla, dolla bills yall, I think we have became enslave with this image being promoted.

Our confident and esteem is more superior to our weight size. You don't have to be a size 2, but be healthy. As you become older your body can not withhold all that damn weight; you will lose muscle value; you will ache; have potential adding MORE weight; you walk slower; your flexibility will decrease; you will start to wobble...see what I mean. You have to remain active and healthy. Still keep your Curve but just Carve it a little. So the new word can be I'M CURVE BUT CARVE.

I just want you to look at the longetivity of your future. I hope you want to live beyond 50 years. Trust me will be become harder as you age. Then it’s not going to be cute and fabulous anymore. No matter how we feel about exercise, we still have to remain active. I will show you fun ways shedding the pound and still feeling sexy and sensual. Who says weight loss has to be boring, it can be deliciously fun and exciting.

Monday, January 17, 2011

What the Dark Goddess is teaching me? Remember, Reinventing and Reintroduction

Hello beautiful people!!! I haven’t written in my blog for a while. I know, I’ve been infrequent writing in my blog, but I will become much better contributing and sharing vital information with you. This a new year, or should, I say a new change of a year. The New Year that we celebrate festively isn’t the New Year. The New Year only implies during the start of spring. It’s much better that way, don’t you think? It’s more enliven, active, blooming, creatively open and more abundance. We are still in hibernation season reflecting and being submissive with our thoughts connecting with the universe. We are gathering and harvesting our ideas and desire to manifest during the spring time. We are still being activated inside of darkness.

Lately, the Dark Goddess has been engaging me back into the Womb, to go back to hibernate my e-motions (energy in motions) and learn how to transmute anger, fear, insecurities, impatient, and laziness into powerful contribution toward spiritual wealth. These are my dark shadows of my self that has been self-sabotaging my life. I’ve grown a lot more recently, but haven’t engaged it through it physically into my reality. I’ve contribute, shared and embark a lot of knowledge and wisdom to other people, but not to myself, fully and earnestly. How can I be a vessel of the FEMININE ENERGY if I’m not equipping it for myself? It’s not easy to display images of your angelic good side than exposing your weakness to be judge and ridicule by others. How to be truly authentic in your spiritual walk? How to face adversities amidst the unknown? How to find acceptance within others and indifferences? How to be loving and compassionate towards others? These questions are deep seated within the DARKNESS. The modalities may not be fascinatingly beautiful, but becoming vulnerable and self-aware brings veneration to your personally growth.

Being in the dark, may seem scary and dreadful for most people because they don’t overstand real transformation. Darkness is where life begins and ends. Darkness is the spiraling dance that moves constantly through life, death and re-birth and regenerating new creative ideas. Darkness is CHAOIC that starts the creative design to bring BALANCE and a HARMONIOUS flow to emerge through the LIGHT. Darkness is where Lightness begins to convert your life differently and freely…well just BEING.

This clairvoyant overview has shown me clues from different aspects through reading books, other people’s introspection, and media outlook and through my own inner-thoughts. What I gather is to learn how to balance my masculine energy with my feminine energy. Masculine energy is about being active, being a leader, protection, and being a solider from you within. Sometimes, we can lack those areas within ourselves, just as much; women can have to much masculine, but in my situation its lack of masculine characteristic. I’m not protecting my interested; being a leader in my life and taking the initiative to be a soldier for myself. As a woman, we need to be balance with both. Your inside reality should reflect your outside reality. If we are not, we are only living a lie, facade, being pretentious and not being authentic with ourselves. Our power will not be operable if we are unbalance, you are just confusing at the universe of what your truly desire the most of life.

I can’t live that type of lifestyle anymore. It’s not fulfilling my life; sensually it’s not healthy and stunting my growth of possibilities to become MORE!!!! This is a transformational overhaul of any wasteful, toxic, burden gunk on my physical, mental and spiritual to become eradicated so that I’m living more sensuous and happy. There are more to come of this fascinating exposure to share and hopefully some things can resonate with you.