Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Fit, Curve beautifully Carve presents: Denise Lipscomb

Today sensual sistah feature is Denise Lipscomb. If you ever heard the term your body is your temple, well Denise, will make your temple look subtly smooth, organically fresh, sweet smelling and a nibble magnet just in case someone may want take a little bite. She has that homegrown, earthy personality that gives you the warmth of a good friend. I’ve only known her from facebook, but her charismatic charm brings you back for her whimsical status update that brings you some sisterly love advice.

All women loves to be pamper, going to the spa getting a massage, but sometimes it may not be in our budget for a luxurious splurge. We also love fragrances that will lure in the atmosphere that will capture our sensuality, as we walk by haunting you for wanting more of that goodness. So when Denise creatively names her product, “Oh My Goddess”, it arrested that same essence of beauty.

I asked Denise, What inspire you to make the product? Denise says, for as long as I can remember commercial skin care products were never friendly to my skin. I come from a family of herbalist, healers and lovers. For years I have made, mixed and created potions and lotions; however, I only gave them away as gifts or to people who were dealing with some sort of ailment.

One day I just decided to put them on the market. My products are appropriate for all skin types; however, my hair products are geared toward black people with natural hair. You asked how they make my skin feel? My skin feels so good I can't help but rub my own booty at night. lol. So many different fragrances from sweet to earthy give my man a definite treat!

My secret ingredient is love. However, my body buttas are a blend of Shea Butter, Jojoba Oil, Kukui Nut Oil, Sweet Almond and Essential Oils.

Oh My Goddess is truly Grass Roots. I would love to see my product line soar; however, I never desire that it get so big that I am forced to add harmful chemicals and preservatives. So you know....I'm not trying to go into mass production unless the product can remain pure. Honestly, I just desire to pour LOVE into what I do. The product has a line of Goddess Soaps, Healing Elixirs, Body Buttas, SugaScrubs & Salt Glos; recently I have added a Hair Butta, Hair Soap and Hair & Skin Conditioner.

Love in a Bottle! The Healing Energy of a Woman can energize and elevate ANYthing we touch.

For a Fit, Curvy beautifully Carve woman this product can surely be an awesome treat after our daily exercising. We always need to keep our skin beautiful. Skin is the biggest organs on our body. So lest keep that skin glowing and kissable.

For more information on Denise Lipscomb and products vist:

Oh My Goddess website

Oh My Goddess facebook

Sunday, February 20, 2011

My Personal Grass Root Journey into Law of Attraction

We are intelligent, astute, brilliant and intriguing type of people. The New Age spiritual movement has plummet inside every dialogue of conversations. The main one is Laws of Attraction. What is this Laws of Attraction? Well many people have interpreted it differently for their own understanding. I will not give you a formal description because you can Google it on-line to find a more elaborate definition. This is my personal depiction about Laws of Attraction. My definition is Laws of Attraction is generated energy that vibrates to attach with other resonated energy sources to expedite the flow of connection. Maybe mines is just as elaborate, but that’s my own interpretation.

I’m in the grass root of Laws of Attraction. I’m creating my moment everyday. I’m creating my own Master Plan. We don’t have privy to see others that we admire or inspire to be like when they have master their life journey to success. We only get the biographical versions of their story. Would it be great to actually see someone in the grass root progression of their journey to success? It would allow people to actually see it done in real time of every excited moment. There are many lessons to be learning that can help someone else in their endeavors and say, “HEY, I went through the same thing, also”. I guess, this is my own personal grass root Master Plan designing my life from a different type of template the Universe of infinity of creations. The universe is unlimited with possibilities, no matter what religion or spiritual path you journey, we all called from the same Creator.

I just embarked on a challenge doing traditional style- push up. I challenge myself to do a full set of 10 by Friday. I accomplish that goal relentlessly. So, what does this have to do with Law of Attraction or your Master Plan, you may ask? Absolutely EVERYTHING!! If you read my previous definition about Law of Attraction then you have notice it’s about energy. You have to generate some energy to move and circulate to make something effective to become tangible. Well we are all aware if you exercise (energy) you will see results (tangible). But sometime you have step out your comfort zone. If you step out of your comfort zone you will deepen your personal growth, therefore, you are designing your life.

I’ve been stepping out of my comfort zone lately. I’ve been writing in my blog, this one; networking with other phenomenal, sensuous women that has their own business and journey; doing advancement type exercise that is impossible, but doable for my body weight it’s making positive choices and changes, that once was a challenge. I know I’m still growing and deepening my unlimited space. So stay tune my Fit, Curve beautifully Carve sistah for more insights.

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Fit, Curve beautifully Carve presents: Spirit Halima

I love this sensual sistah. This sensual sistah I met over 3yrs. ago over the internet. We both were doing a raw food challenge together for 90 days. Her name is Spirit Halima. The name alone holds much ancient wisdom, a daughter from Mother Earth. During that challenge we became friends, we gave positive reinforcement to each other; being accountable; giving support and most of all encouragement. We all like distant relatives, that you actually liked…LOL.

Spirit Halima is also co-creator of Inner Light Radio. During our 90 days challenge along with the Richard Blackmon, who created the raw food challenge, both Richard and Spirit did a feature every Wednesday on Inner Light Radio, called Reboot your Life. This show was about the challenges of diet, weight and food. It wasn’t just about raw food per say, but the chaotic effectiveness of eating the wrong food can cause havoc on your life and mental capacity. The show also had extraordinary guests like Phil Valentine, Dick Gregory, Queen Afa, Dr. Jewell Pookum and others. It was a fun filled show.

While we were on the challenge, every night you had to post what you’ve eaten, exercise and what ever your concerns of victories and struggles. Well this particular day, I wrote about my struggles of sabotaging myself. I didn’t know that’s what I was actually doing, but during the challenge I became more aware of my behavior. I spoke about how every three months being on a diet, I would self-sabotage by eating something that didn’t benefit my fitness growth. I was writing my spills, but it was liberating to actually feel some intimacy with my struggle to stop and reduce the bad habit that carries all burdens on other parts in my life. From my posting, Spirit asked to join her on “Reboot Your Life”. She thought my story will help other people to learn my life lesson. I was honored and nervous because I’ve never been on a panel, show or any kind. Spirit made my experience pleasurable. She is a great host. Her voice is very warm and soothing. Even though, before going on show, I listen to her approach of asking thought provoking questions and comfortable ease that she was made for this kind of purpose. Being a guest first hand, I was blown away of her professionalism, but in a carefree type of way.

Ever since then, we still keep in contact via face book. Spirit has grown into many endeavors and have grown into a sensual sister connecting to her sexual energy. She does now have her own communication production company called Chancellor Communication. Chancellor Communications (CC) is a global public relations firm specializing in radio promotions and event planning. Our niche is connecting entrepreneurs who have a product or service to support one’s well being with potential customers interested in personal growth and self development. With 15 years experience in commercial and internet radio, Chancellor Communications has built solid relationships with radio hosts and producers nationwide, Europe and Canada. Our staff has created, organized and managed small seminars to conferences with over 200 attendees. In partnering with our clients, we seek clear goals and implement sound strategies to achieve desired outcomes. In supporting our client’s goals, we offer a variety of services depending on their budget goals and needs.

Here’s more about Spirit Halima:

As a creative visionary, passionate about healing and transformation, Spirit Halima is a student of Ancient Wisdom, committed to personal growth for herself and others. In 2002, she launched the Cosmic Womb, an Internet Radio Talk Show an internet radio talk show that covered topics relating to natural healing, womb wellness, relationships, universal laws, principles and metaphysics. The program shared healing and transformative information to support listeners in having more choices available to re-create their lives: mind, body and soul. Spirit Halima has interviewed world renowned guests such as Rev. Michael Beckwith, founder of Agape International Spiritual Center, Health Advocate and Activist, Dick Gregory, Herbalist Djehuty Ma’at Ra and many others.

This sensual sistah is also bringing The Beauty Matrix - Your Beauty is Organic. It's a lecture going into the Matrix's spell on women that have us feeling inadequate to to fuel the Beauty Matrix ( cosmetics, plastic surgery, fashion trends, etc.) February 24th @ 7pm pacific

As a Fit, Curvy beautifully Carve woman, we always strives to become better. Marketing yourself as a brand, knowing your worth and what you have to offer will bring abundance and wealth into your life. We are more than just a weight size, but more the sizes of our attraction for our creativity. If you have products, want to be a better host or guest, and starts your own radio show give Spirit Halima some business so she can grow yours.

You can find more info on Spirit Halima:

the cosmic room

Friday, February 11, 2011

Sensual Friday: The Human Touch

I was listening to Kem song “Human Touch” and thought how the tactile of a touch can be a signs of wanting, liking, engaging and just sensually sweet. It’s the moment of surrendering all thoughts of menial contemplation and just being strictly presence. Touch is like a serenade of violin strings orchestrating a jazzy assemble on your body playing Dizzy, Sonya, heaven Miles between your thighs. It’s a rhythm of collided fingers mapping every curves and peak on a silhouette road. The closeness of another human is comfort and utterly captivated. Your energetic body becomes animate with every meridians and chakra being expose in an illuminative explosion of secretion.

When you are in a relationship, touch is essential. Without touch different wonderment of thoughts will leave a person feeling insecure. Touch represents nurturing, love, caring, intention, attentiveness and security. A simple touch can be spontaneously enriched by being surprise. A unexpected touch from behind while washing dishes; a unexpected touch while being in the presence of friends and relative; a unexpected touch while driving in your car or a unexpected touch by your favorite crush. It’s a satisfy meal for any occasion. It’s just the warmth of a person hand that can take you to ecstasy. The rich, opulence of ingrain electrical shocks circulating inside your body is orgasmic.

Human touch is part of our culture as homo sapiens. It’s our greeting card. We touch each other everyday. We use it to greet people by a hug or shaking hands. We use it to flirt with someone by touching their hair, knees, and shoulder. We use it while we are dancing a tease of the ass, hands around the waist or just a full assembly of body movement. We use it for general affection.

In some culture like in Africa, touch is about grooming and healing. Women in the village would groom each other hair. The woman would sit in-between the leg of the braider, while sharing whimsical playfulness and womanly love. It’s a gathering to express things about life, situational matters and about men…lol. It is also use my many witch doctors, magical healers, shamans, and other that deals with energy healing that sometime the touch can be faint, but still felt inside the body. Mothers use healing touches for their baby. If the baby had a respiratory congestion, the mother would rub the chest area to break-up any mucus. A sensual massage is great to circulate any stagnate energy in the body.

We need touch like we need food and water. Babies need constants touch for stimulation to keep their body system healthy, emotional balance and safe. Without the essential of touch we would emotionally die and sometimes a physical death. This can create dishearten, angry, aggressive person to live unhappily. These people can claim havoc upon other people’s lives. They become takers not givers, which mean they can rob you. They become hateful not loving, which means they can fight you. They become aggressive not pleasant, which mean they don’t satisfy you sexually. They become fearful not secure, which means they can kill you.

It doesn’t have to be with someone else. A touch can come from your self; self loving your own body. The curvy woman sometimes forgets to adore her body at that moment. While we are in transition, we should always have a celebratory moment when we see chances within our body. Celebrate the small details of your victory. When you starting see muscle lines, curves contouring, skin clearing up and changes overall. Touch that area. Love that area. Caress that area. Give thanks to that area. Some curvy women my have swollen, painful leg pains, or dark areas that blood is not able to circulate properly, take special attention and care to those area, as well. This will boost your sensuality IQ up exponentially. This is the healthiest time to be appreciative of your work and decision to become fit and healthy.

What are some things you do for yourself to make you feel special? Have you ever had an unexpected touch that was pure ecstasy? Do share some of your own touch experience.

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Fit, Curve beautifully Carve presents: Diva Mama Tonya

We have another sensual sistah to share with you all. Tonya K. FreemanTonya K. Freeman is affectionately known as Diva Mama Tonya around people that know her essence. That name carries brilliance of a wise woman; if you ever spoken to her in person, virtually spoken to her on face book or glimpse at her sexy aura, your energy shall become illuminative aroused. She will make you come to her presence as a wondrous child searching for the authentic truth. You’ll become astutely engage, as she, spew out ancient wisdom from our ancestor’s oratorical vault, while sitting circularly around a matriarch axis. Her voice will transcend you as she will dance, sing and chant old hymns of Goddess rhythm.

I came in connect with, Diva Mama Tonya, in the good ole’ fashionable way, Facebook, I saw her profile picture and said wow, interesting. I’m thinking interesting because she had an intriguing beauty. Her face is captivating mixed with vanilla crème and sandy brown complexion depending how the sun capture her spirit, a kissable bald, softly rub head and some passionate red lipstick…POW!!! That’s what you called stylin’ and proflin’, baby!!! She has this bold presence, as if, you wasn't liberating enough; but still gives you this confident that you can be. Of course, I read her description; she is a Visionary, Motivational Speaker, Recording Artist and Author. Her other interests are spirituality, sacred sexuality and feminine sexy vibes and as well a gatekeeper of wise women that is consider as woman shaman. When she befriends me, she welcomed me like coming to a women gathering and I’m the invited guest. She always has a friendly effervescence appeal around Facebook checking on you to see if you’re okay.

She loves woman affectionately. What I mean, she caress with her marvelous voice of sweet, but assertive granular that speaks maturation of love, wisdom and courage; teaches us the superlative way of being a feminine woman, our nurturing fragrance, our sacred moon cycle, how to dance sensually and openly, being a healer, being a lover, being sovereign woman and being unapologetic.

As a Fit, Curve beautifully Carve women these are the essential of becoming well-balance spiritual woman. We have to gain our sensuality to grow align with our spiritual bodies, as well our physical bodies. We are the ancient keepers, nurturer of life and the womb factory of creativity. Lest celebrate our femininity living more blissfully. We are more than just a scale number.

Tonya K. Freeman Bio

Diva Mama Tonya, as she is affectionately known, has been working diligently towards encouraging women to become more empowered by embracing their natural womanly cycles.

She is devoted to inspiring women along their path in blissfully reclaiming their Ancient Power.

Focused on spreading her message of empowerment through spoken word performances and speaking engagements, Dr Freeman is also an ordained inter-faith minister; has doctorate degrees in divinity, metaphysics and motivation through the Universal Life Church; is a certified Aromatherapist; a Reiki/Karuna Ki Master; and an Ancient Femi9 Wisdom Keeper; Inner Growth Consultant; Harmonic Infusion Practitioner; and Diva Advocate with over 30 years of transformational work with women.

Raised in the Village of Harlem, New York and utilizing her early parochial education, plus her love of reading and research, Dr Freeman excelled as a self-taught individual with a mind always open to learning, sharing and new experiences. These factors, along with her winsome personality, have placed her in demand as a seminar/workshop leader and as a motivational speaker to those who have had the opportunity to meet and hear her. Fun loving and possessing a zest for life, she possesses a gift which enables her to connect with persons from all walks of life.

She is now creating dancing meditation/visualization CD's where each track is a 10-12 minute workout. Here is the link to explore and listen to the samples as well as download one track if you want to get your sexy, spiritual dance on get this CD. Movement helps generate positive energy through out your body. You can use this to manifest whatever your desires deserve.

She also has a tonya and friends fan page to check other phenomenal women in her circle.

Here you can listen to archives and interviews
from women who walked in the journey of womanhood.

Her personal blog to get more info.

You can download listen to samples and purchase her CD's.

A few videos of our feature sensual sistah

Friday, February 4, 2011

Sensual Friday: The Intimacy of Hips, Butts and Thighs

Hello my sensual sistahs, welcum to another Sensual Friday. I’m going to discuss the intimacy of body movement. Dancing heals your soul through sensual movement, poetic expressions, and earthy connections. Dancing is also powerful, sexual, fire, erotic, even orgasmic. This is a great way to create sexual energy. We are born dancing in the womb, so you don't have to be train or have experience to MOVE. Women are innately born with this phenomenal gift. Our feminine energy is fluid and soft like water, that's our connection to the spiritual worlds, the creative LIFE force, the GODDESS. Dancing brings euphoric feelings of senseless attractions, a trance movement that has a mystical far-away place. You will become oblivious of your surrounding and become FREE and letting GO. Excerpt
Being a woman and dancing is the greatest marriage on earth. The most salacious part of a woman’s body except the breast, Is the lower body parts. OH YES!!!! Think about it. The lower part correlates with the hips, pelvic, thighs, butt, torso and that beautiful inner center the yoni. Those areas are the flirtiest and seductive attributes. It lays the foundation of your flirty momentum. It’s where the sexual energy ignites. It’s where the sleekest curves are more prominent. The eye of seduction is the lower part of a woman that seeks the main attention, albeit, the breasts are luscious, perky and juicy, but the lower area is the most powerful.

For men, well lest say black men love the power of the booty and everything else that is complimentary to that region. I use black men because in our culture that’s the area of storytelling using the beats of the drum. If you ever gone to parts of African Diaspora, you will see the celebratory of hips, butts and thighs being saturate with the drum beats. It’s like the lower part is being hypnotize and under a spell of the drum sounds. Those drum beats are similar to the thunderous frequency in the sky. It can rattle your soul. The lower region is little more carefree and liberated than the rest of the body. It’s the closest to the earth’s energy. The sexual organs generate bio-energy to create electrical surge through out the body to be transcend with the earth’s ionosphere. The ionosphere is very thin, but it is where aurora takes place, and is also responsible for absorbing the most energetic photons from the Sun, and for reflecting radio waves, thereby making long-distance radio communication possible. This is the seductive vibration while we are dancing in space. Dancing is like sex and has just as much concentrated sexual energy being created.

There can be traces of sexual positions in dancing…hmmmmmm mmmmm. Think about it. Dancing has plenty of pelvic gyration, deep thrust squats, sexual shifts, undulations, sensual caresses, and unison breathing. Every muscle is engage and isolated. A lot of sexual positions require strength in the inner thighs, abdominal, back and shoulders. When you can manipulate your body and have control, fluidity movements, you will increase your sexual pleasure, immensely. You will be able ecstatically excited with unlimited creativity with your lovely partner. Ever wonder why, dancers’ looks so blissful and happy especially with couple type dancing. It’s euphoric!!!!! Check out some dancehall reggae moves that is the epitome of sexual positions. Excerpt here

As a full-figure woman that is in the progress being more fit. We forget the intimacy of our own body. How it moves? The connection we have with body movement. Most full-figure women have lost their equilibrium. Some walk with a limp, hop, wobble that will deteriorate your bones overtime. It can cause fracture bones, emotional tried, lower back pain, pelvic prolapsed, and other great harm, if you don’t connect with your body. I’m 80 pounds overweight and learning how to balance and align my body properly makes a big difference in my everyday movement. The skeleton bones is supported my muscles for movement, but the skeleton is what moves the body. It just feels good to be more intimate with my body, being more engaging with body movements, feeling different parts being coordinated with other parts of body that's correlated together. Understanding my pelvic area and playing different angles of the width or narrow parts, seeing what kind circular movements I can create. When you've been over 300 pd. you don't get to be that intimate with your body, closely and deeply feeling. The body has been out of balance for so long. I feel hella good. Since then I've lost about 60. Strength training will be next, though. The connection with my body and weight training will be alot easier to hit the right muscle during training. We get so caught up in weightloss that we don’t get to feel our inner body.

Dancing is a big part of our innate characteristic. We have to keep our body more align and balance. Do you have any pain when you walk? Do some of you suffer with back pain? Do some of you wobble, hop or limp? Lest talk about it and learn from each other. This is the best start in our journey. This the Fit, Curve beautifully Carve way!!!!

Here's some hip shaking, body moving dancing


Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Surya Devi is our Feature Sensual Sistah

Oh yes, I have another sensual sistah to feature today. She is the glamour of sensuality. She oozes out liquid seduction and her voice will moist a towel. She is Angelique Shofar aka Surya Devi on facebook. Even her name is sensual delight. Just like most people, I glimpse at her page on Myspace. What capture my eye the name Sexual Griot? Hmmm, sexual griot what is that, I wonder. I knew the sexual part, so I proceed to find out the griot. By definition a griot is a member of a hereditary caste among the peoples of western Africa whose function is to keep an oral history of the tribe or village and to entertain with stories, poems, songs, dances, etc. Wow interesting!! She a native African I wonder. Later I found out she is from Liberia. From the definition alone she is a brilliant dancer, sensual writer, a healer, mother, intuitive reader, lifestyle coach and astrologist. But this Goddess is always evolving to other divine intervention.

As I peek out her other pages, I will share those links with you later, I read so many great articles that she had written. During this time I was definitely in search of my own sensuality. About 3 years ago, I when I began my own search about sacred sexuality, sensuality, tantric and other relatable sources, I didn’t see many black people from my research, especially black women. But once you get on that vibration, you will surely attract those people to you and now you see bountiful of black women and men evolving in sacred sexuality. But when I saw Surya page, it was like a holiday for me. I wanted to know her.

Well, thank Goddess for facebook. I join facebook maybe 2 years ago. As I browsing around, low and behold there is Surya! I befriend her right away. I’m a shy person even in the virtual world…ha… especially approaching people. I love visiting her page, she always have sensual feminine topics that is thought provoking and interesting. Over time I began to comment here and there. She’s a very engaging person, even though you’re virtual, she makes you feel like you are sitting her living room accompany with other guest. During the process I began to open up a little and shared stories, asked question, just being relaxed. I can truly say I know her enough to grow and learn more from Surya.

She has a new adventure added to her other list of accomplishment. She is the creator of Womb Love. She will also have a workshop in the Washington DC. This her philosophy on Womb LOVE:

Our WOMBS are in a STATE of EMERGENCY! And its distortion can be seen in the plague of female reproductive disorders, sexual imbalances, the battle between the sexes, weather patterns, political rapes and assaults, violence again women, the trickling down into our human relationships - all mirroring the consciousness of our WOMBS!
This workshop is a declaration to suspend abnormal functions and activities around the womb that we have come to accept as normal, it is a call to change our destructive and disempowering WOMB habits, attitudes, beliefs & behaviors. Many wombs are imbalanced - cold, stagnant, blocked, polluted, wounded and in need of purifying and replenishing and so is our Earth's womb! To heal ours, requires us to see the direct link between our womb and that of mother earth.
The "WOMB LOVE" Workshop offers you the tools and resources to purify and restore balance and perfect health to your womb and body. You will be introduced to new ways of being in your womb, seeing and living from it. It is a comprehensive educational and practical training course. One that you will not find in the academic or medical institutions.
Do you know and understand your WOMB POWER?

DATE: FEBRUARY 13th, 2011

TIME: 12noon - 4:00pm

PLACE: The Urban Goddess Temple
Washington, DC

Cost: $60.00
(for advance registration

If you are in the area please check this Goddess out!!!

Also if you want your health, wealth, iginte your sensual fire, intuitive reading, yoga check her other links:

sexual griot

sprit of wellness

public relation


Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Shape Shifting to Beyond Bullshit Leaders

I love watching reality shows. Some people don’t enjoy watching those shows, but to me it’s just entertainment for laughter. It’s comical like any other menial shows. I don’t take reality shows too serious. There are some shows that are actually good to gather great information; learn strategies; different life lesson; creative ideals and different life lesson. Something about reality shows that makes it captivating and a sinful pleasure. You can look at shows like The Bad Girls Club, The Basketball Wives and other shows that demonstrate stupidity at its finest, but underneath the filth of bad mannerism, you could find a glimpse of hope, change and growth. Shows like the Biggest Loser demonstrate life lessons and vulnerabilities of people’s personal issue battling with weight. But underneath all of the weight withholds secrets of the past. Mostly weight is only culminated by sexual repression, ambiguous beliefs, family trauma and unwavering thoughts that lingers inside your tissues and gets bury beneath all the blubber. The illusive reality they use food to sexual, mentally and physically satisfy their desirable appetite. It’s a false comfort of love and support. But in life we all use faulty substitute to alter our authentic feelings of being loved. But within all of that hard concrete, you will find a bull dozer and drill you a new hole to start over.

Last night I was watching one of my favorite reality shows, “Kimora Lee: Life in the Fab Lane”. This episode was about growth. She was speaking to her ex husband Russell Simmons, about Baby Phat clothing line that she and Russell started 15 years ago. Baby Phat was the second brain child from Phat Farm; Russell’s clothing line to launch a new line for women. Kimora Lee branded Baby Phat as her signature line to allow women to live opulent, glittery fashionable, high socialite, and pretentious lifestyle, which Kimora Lee coin the name Fabulosity . It was a drag queenish, over the top of mixed of exaggerated personality. Her clothes were a holiday for everyday. More for nighttime wear not for work related, but some of us have tried, yep. But anyway, in this particular scene Baby Phat was no long being design because the line was not appropriate for the maturing woman.

Around 15 years ago, Baby Phat represented younger women between 18-30 years of age. Mostly these women have grown up with jobs, married, and business entrepreneurial furthering in different paths. Now her new business endeavors represent an innovative growth leverage to promote services for the new woman. She felt like a parent sending a child away to college, but knew that child had to grown up and let it go to find other inspirations. I thought that was a great life lesson about growth.

But why does it have to be so challenging for people to change. Change is good, right? But it’s so hard to let go of comfort and embrace a new paradigm. People love to have a leader so they can follow a more structural life; a spokesperson to tell them how to live life; a life coach to give answers and understanding; a guru to help establish a profound way to be creative. It’s wonderful to have difference of opinion and ideal as a good filler to give you some leverage, but then you BECOME your own leadership and forward it to someone else.

I remember Monique being the spoke person for BBW to be beautiful and have confident. She even had a show called “Phat Chance” a modeling show dedicated towards full-figure. Monique had a huge follower that help campaign this phenomenal movement of full-figure women loving self. This helps birth and launches other projects in every media possible like fashion, modeling, dating sites, and movies and even porn. The increase allows other full-figure to have a voice and a life of happiness. In recent time Monique has lost weight, but the backlash of some of her fans been hilarious. Why get angry for someone who wants to be healthy and in better health? WHY? Oh I see, people think she left them behind. She no longer part of the BBW crew, but wait she is still curvy and full-figure, right? So, what’s the damn problem, then? Well, few of her fans felt abandon. They feel she preach all about this empowerment of loving your body, and now she contrasting her own words. All she is doing is just flaunting her weight. Wow!!!! I don’t think she is flaunting, flashing or flicking her body, as though, she is teasing and taunting other women, but more so, being confidently happy on her journey to success. She should inspire you to do the same. Everyone evolves into the greatness of self. Don’t you want to become successful in your life? Don’t you want to have a better sex life? Don’t you want to have an erected posture without the excessive body foundation? Don’t you want to feel good? Don’t you want to have a sexier walk? Well my sensual sistahs you will need to grow and evolve.

Life is about change. You’re not an infant that constantly need someone to assist you for everything. We can be inspired by someone, but they are not your leader. You are your own leader. You create your own life and destiny. No one is leaving you behind. You are the one who’s being stagnant. This is the Law of Allowance, baby!! Allow the change to move through life like a dancer; play with different tempos and sounds; leap, jump, sway your hips to the bass of your heart; walk femininely to the earth’s drum beat, just move swiveling across the world like you have some place to go…EVOLVE…EVOLVE…EVOLVE…

I know I have 85 more pounds to lose. I am inspired by other sensual women to strive for a better womanhood. I am inspired by other women’s success. I am inspired by their Fit, Curve Beautifully Carve body. When they evolve I’m evolving as well. We are the same reflection. We all should be inspired by Kimora Lee, Monique, Oprah, your mother, sisters, aunties or just any woman that is always maturing living in their purpose. The others will stay behind because they are not of your reflections. They are still waiting for a leader.